We've lost our way as Black women. We no longer demand the respect that we deserve. We no longer carry ourselves in the manner that we should as the Earth. We are happy with minimal acts of interest from men. We are happy with a text. A phone call is no longer necessary. We are settling so that we don't have to be alone. We are pretending that having a baby daddy that lives under the same roof as us is just as good as having a husband and life partner. A man entering you without a condom and impregnating you is not the same as a man committing to you for life and acknowledging that he has found his rib. He has found you. Male animals impregnate female animals. It's a physical act. Cut the shit.
We worship men that can barely put a sentence together because his song is on 'The Sucker Free Countdown'. We have no respect for happy, solid relationships. We have no problem infiltrating genuine unions. If she was "doing what she was supposed to do" we wouldn't have had a chance to get with him. We have no regard for another sister. It's a dog eat dog world so it's every bitch for themselves. We have downgraded to the mentality of a whore. A long way from the queens that we were destined to be. We've lost our way as Black women.
We hate on other women doing better than us instead of being happy that another queen is establishing her position. We aren't happy with ourselves. Self hatred that no amount of ass injections or baby pink M.A.C lipstick will solve.
We are left with the responsibility of taking care of our children and have allowed resentment to set in. We leave our babies home with our mothers and grandmothers while we stand in lines for hours to get into the club free. Wearing shoes that hardly fit and that we can hardly afford. All to impress a Ciroc guzzling ape that spent his child support money on VIP bottles. A far cry from the queens we were destined to be.
We've lost our way as Black women. Instead of bustin it open to Wacka Flocka tracks we might have to resort to bustin open a book.
We are the carriers of life. We need to earn our crowns back.
absolutely love this post. we as a race still suffer from divide & conquer. we no longer pull together to be great.
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ReplyDeleteThank You Tiffany we need more sisters to speak about the error we impose on ourselves. Yes globally we are considered the Whore of the world. I stopped an African Brother and asked him do you'll see us as whores? his reply was yes and he was a bit ashamed to answer. You know your blog is so important please keep it up we have to speak to each other and we can compliment each other too. We have an XX Chromosome Our Men have XY 2.8% genetic defect. This is very key,they really have a brain condition. Not trying to be funny although I am laughing. They are so sensitive that they go to war Kill each other. Come on XX's Meditate do some yoga Maybe research you history or ourstory. The Dark womb Mother Universe please say yes to inner wellness and no to your vanity ego self.
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